The biggest problem that one encounters while making aspiration is like a tug-of-war on whether to focus on others or oneself. Once you have leaped across, you will get used to it. After being centred on others for a long time, at times when I suddenly think of “I”, I feel ashamed: “Why are you thinking for yourself again? This is not the way to happiness.” Hence this is an issue pertaining to habit.
《希望·新生》【四季法语】夏 #119 Summer · Four Seasons Words of Wisdom [Hope·Embark]
发心遇到的最大问题，就是以他人为中心，还是以自我为中心的这种拉拔，一旦跳跃过就习惯了。 以他人为中心久了之后，偶而突然想到「我」，就会觉得很惭愧：「怎么又想自己了呢？这并非快乐之道。」所以这是一个习惯的问题。
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